THE MAN, WHO HAS LESS, BUILDS HIS OWN CASTLE. THE MAN WHO HAS MORE LAYS ONLY ONE BRICK AND DREAMS.
AUTHOR EDNA STEWART
At times, one can be shocked when a person finds out something about another person, our lover, partner, marriage or relationship(s). But, did one really see the situation as it is or what was already there? Did one chose to ignore it and gain what is and was at that time or chose an illusion to deal with a situation of a type of relationship of being with someone or collection of the physical arise as truth?
One can decide to end the relationship or accept what is and move on, but move on in a way where you see the person, persons and partner as a mirror and not an enemy and that you learn a lesson about yourself. What we see or hate in another is only shows what is reflected in us. Learning about you makes you stronger. One knows what works, does not work for them.
Relationships can go to another level, the decision has to be made of what one wants and, it’s a matter of how far a person wants to go with someone else. If a relationship is build one brick at a time, you have more by laying one brick and expect it to stay at an ultimate function with true stability and security.
The person who has less to work with will build his own castle. You see yourself as human and the other person sees themselves as human, who has less material or physical appearances. The one in a relationship, who presents his partner with constant things to woo a person, lays only one brick and dreams of what could be if I were happy.
When two people meet at a point in relationship and life, they are naked, they see each other, clear and transparent once a relationship reaches this point, there is no dreaming of what could be, it is because you see it just as it is in that moment, True life and true love of self and others.